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Understanding Our Conflict Cycle — Couples Therapy Worksheet

A shared reflection for noticing how conflict unfolds between us — and where there may be opportunities to respond differently

A couples therapy worksheet for mapping a recurring conflict sequence across both partners: trigger/context, internal experience, protective response, reciprocal reaction, underlying needs, early interruption points, and next-time options, with explicit IPV/coercion boundaries.

Resource preview — not the full resource

This page describes what’s available in Therapist Sidekick. The complete resource — including prompts, exercises, visuals, and client-ready material — is available inside the therapist workspace.

What this resource is designed to support

  • map a couples conflict cycle
  • identify reciprocal conflict patterns
  • identify underlying needs in couple conflict
  • find earlier interruption points

Resource details

Population
couplesadult
Clinical topics
couples therapyrelationship conflictcommunicationrelational patternsrepairemotional activation
Therapeutic approaches
Couples therapy
Clinical orientations
Couples therapyRelationalEmotion-focused informed
Formats
worksheetcouples therapy worksheetpattern map
Professional-use note: This public page describes the scope of a Therapist Sidekick resource; it is not the resource itself, a diagnosis, a treatment plan, or crisis guidance. Clinicians remain responsible for determining whether any resource is appropriate for a particular client.